For the longest time, ‘Who is the greatest footballer of all time?’ was the most popular debate in the ethers of football. Was it Cristiano Ronaldo or was it Lionel Messi? Throw in Pelé and Maradona into the mix and the parameters for discussion becomes unquantifiable – the need to frame the past in today’s standards, the quality variation across different leagues in different times and the quality of their teammates (poorer teammates needs a greater maverick). The debate becomes almost pointless as it launches into hypothetical space.
Why do we care about who is the greatest?
And as we edged closer and closer to the final on Sunday, the main narrative was, ‘If Lionel Messi wins this, surely he is the greatest footballer of all time. Surely. It would be put to bed once and for all.’ For he would have won everything for club and country. For he would have equal and perhaps surpassed Maradona’s achievements. Cristiano at the age of 37 surely had his last World Cup and wouldn’t be able to emulate Argentinian maestro anymore. Messi was on the brink of immortality.
For and against, arguable every football fan was invested in this. And as Argentina went 2-0 up against France in 36 minutes out of 90, we felt the we could finally put a full stop on the troublesome and tiring discussion. We can have closure. And so does Messi.
And in a way, it fits into the prism on how we see things these days. A movie is either good or bad. Once a person is outed as doing something wrong or deemed not socially appropriate, the person is ‘cancelled’ with no way back. The iPhone must be better than Android because it just is. We want the best places and the best things. There is hardly room for in between, to navigate between the two extremes, to contextualise and to accept that there are caveats and asterisks. To give room for healthy discussion and growth. All is for certain and nothing is in doubt.
Life is already full of it. Why the need to put anything not directly affecting our lives into the grey? We wouldn’t need to ask if the sun shines this Thursday, if we are going to get that job, when the world is going to end or if God exist, because we already know.
And wouldn’t that be nice? Argentinian fans sure wished they knew when France suddenly brought the score to 2-2. Dreams of elation and closure all but evaporated. What was going to happen?
It shouldn’t be this way. Life says that if we work hard enough to make it happen, it would happen. And surely at the fifth time of asking, of being asked to carry the hope of a nation, to emulate another footballing deity and to bend football to his will, Messi can finally get the crowning glory after 20 years. He has already won everything and was only missing the final elusive piece, the World Cup.
At 2-2, it looked like it wasn’t meant to be. Even as Messi score again, France came back to bring it to 3-3 after a handball from Gonzalo Montiel and Mbappe scoring the penalty. And in that moment, the world related to Messi. We have all been in situations where we hoped for the best and it didn’t work out. As Joe Devine from Tifo Football puts it, “it’s something as simple as you know you have a romantic interest in, something with someone, you go on a date, you think it’s gone really well turns out it hasn’t, they don’t like you, they in fact hate you and they wish you were dead, you know those sort of things.’
So in some respects, perhaps it’s fitting if Messi don’t get the World Cup because life is not a fairy tale. Art imitates life.
But perhaps the suffering is necessary to taste a sweeter victory. That life is a process of trial and error. If at first we don’t succeed, try again. If at second you don’t succeed, try again. The third, the fourth, the fifth. You learn from your mistakes in each one and recalibrate yourself. Each marginal improvement leading to something better, something grander.
And that there is wonder in wandering, to grow in unwavering faith in the divine. The love we have for others is only great because we don’t know for sure that they will love us back. That there is profound joy in unearthing the quirkiness and beauty from your spouse each day. To love those around us even more as they love us through the nadir.
And as great as we are, no achievement is a product of only one person. All achievements are a sum of those the came before, those around the achiever and the person himself.
And maybe that’s why Messi won in the end. The team changed over the 20 years. With his talent ever effervescent, the pieces got put together. The manager changed and the support multipled. His wife and children by his side. The team giving all their all to help country and Messi achieve the ultimate sporting dream. It wasn’t Messi that scored the last decisive penalty. It was Gonzalo Montiel, his humble teammate, the guy that was responsible for the handball. The left-footed genius did need a little help after all.
Maybe we care about who is the greatest because it’s a great story to get behind, to see someone who persisted and suffered so much to finally come out of on top at the very end. It gives us hope that at the end of it all, we ourselves can make it. That in spite of the circumstances we find ourselves in, we can make the best life we can. That in the strangest of ways, we can emulate Messi.
It’s a fitting end to a remarkable career. What a player. What a story. For the rest of us, there is hope just yet.